I have thoroughly enjoyed reading this book, and for a non-reader, that is really saying something. I even plan on rereading this book while vacationing in Daytona after graduation. I loved the story that was told about handing out the blame, and how Zander realized that it could only divide the group. The purpose of making beautiful music, is being able to work cooperatively with each other to create memories. Each performance happens that one time. It is only within that moment that the opportunity for that performance of a particular piece of music can exist. I have found that the field of education is very guilty of using reward and punishment as a means of accountability. If you don’t show for a concert, or turn in a piece of homework, then your grade suffers. Is that really creating motivation?
The analogy of the bus not liking my suggestions or following my advice, can reapply to classroom situation so easily. Let’s think of them, rather than me. Why should I allow myself to lay down or create unnecessary boundaries. Shouldn’t we come together as one? What can I do to help in the cohesiveness of our group? Can I do something differently? Is it me that is holding back the progression of things? Shouldn’t’ I be working on my relationship with my students and my encounters rather than setting unnecessary boundaries.? These are tremendous questions that have popped into my head over the past month. I think I am ready to reread to better absorb, and open myself and my teaching up more to the world in which I exist, rather than the world in which I think I should exist.
What has stood before me for my dream job is a misconception of my perspective of living and acting under authority. This concept was taught to me about 20 years ago, and I now see that it is a barrier. The perspective that we are all leaders and teachers and contributors is much more the WE story, proposed by the Zanders. I look forward to the coming months as I practice developing the WE story for my dream job.
I’m with you Deborah. It is difficult to break out of the old ways. Zander speaks so eloquently and offers so much insight into accepting our existence around us. I thought that many of his comments and ideas are so worthwhile pursuing. Especially as someone who has been in the same routine and guidelines for many years. I would like to think that through more self exploration and soul searching I may be able to be more open and aware of making mine, and others, worlds more accepting.